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Hi! Meet Milk & Honey!

An 18+ FFXIV community for the wanderers and the believers. For the stories, the chaos, friendships and everything in between.

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WHAT IS MILK & HONEY?

M&H, even when you’re logged out.

Milk & Honey is a community created by Lili & Luma Lux in 2017. For nearly a decade, it’s been a place to chat, hang out, do content, GPOSE, make memories, and meet people we may have never crossed paths with!

M&H is a community we've genuinely loved building, and we want this site to grow alongside us as another little piece of it. For now, it’s simply another place to have fun, share memories, and stay connected in different ways.

As our motto goes: We don't sleep at night!

What is Milk & Honey anyway?

We're the FC that never sleeps!

The storyteller

A tavern scene, a new character, an unexpected plot.

The glamour enthusiast

An outfit, a photo, and one more inventory slot.

The event gremlin

A game, an adventure, or a reason to get everyone together.

The quiet regular

Good company comes in every volume.

The things we look after.

People & boundaries

We are a 18+ Community and open to different styles of roleplay. Everything is based on respect. Always read the room, ask first, respect a no, and keep in-character conflict separate from the people behind the characters. If anyone ever disrespects your boundaries, please contact Lili or Luma.

Inclusive Community

M&H will always be an inclusive community. If anyone ever disrespects your boundaries or make you feel uncomfortable, please report them.

A Community built by us!

M&H is built by all of us! Your voice is important in the community. Anytime you'd like to host something, create RP scenes or pitch a chaotic event to the twins? Just reach out!

THINKING ABOUT JOINING?

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Our Community Finder has the latest recruitment details, event info, and application contact. Check it before applying!

Your first few days.

  1. Say Hi!

    Introduce yourself to the FC in FC chat or discord. Everyone is very welcoming here!

  2. Hang out in the FC Courtyard.

    Wanna see what's going on? Do you need a place to look cute and AFK? Meet a new friend? The FC courtyard is the best place for that!

  3. Keep up with us!

    If you'd like to socialize with M&H offline, we have a discord and now this site as a way to stay connected! If you'd like to see upcoming events - check discord!

A quick look around.

Before you join.

Do I have to roleplay?

Not at all! M&H is RP-friendly, not RP-required. There’s always room for stories here, and you’re welcome to be IC whenever the moment feels right. We tend to have a natural mix of IC and OOC interaction, so it’s mostly about reading the room, respecting each other’s space, and having fun.

Do I need to be on Balmung?

To join the FC, yes you do need to be in Balmung. We know, Balmung is always locked... TwT

Balmung is locked? You’re still welcome to visit us through Data Center travel and hang out! Our home is located in Lavender Beds, Ward 1, Plot 36.

Is Discord required?

Nope! While we do have an active Discord for FC members and friends, you’re completely welcome to keep things in-game if that’s what you prefer.

Discord (and now this site!) is there as an extension of the community for chatting, sharing gposes, keeping up with events, finding people to play with, and staying connected with everyone when you're offline.

How active do I need to be?

Life happens...we get it! You don’t need to log in every day to be part of M&H. That said, we do prefer keeping a smaller, active community rather than bloating our numbers with inactive accounts, so I like to run activity checks every few months.

If you’ve been offline for more than 60 days, you may be removed unless you’ve let me know you’ll be away. You don't have to go into detail, a simple "I can't log in for now!" will work!

When activity checks happen, they aren't a surprise. I will usually give a 24-48 hour purge warning in discord before removal.

Do events have requirements?

Unless the event page says otherwise, nope! Most M&H events are open for you to simply show up and have fun.

Activities are usually optional, and we often use dice rolls, games, and other little fun games to keep things lighthearted. If you’d rather just chill, lurk for a bit, and join in when you feel comfortable, that’s completely fine too.

What content do you do?

Honestly, a bit of everything! When a new patch drops and content is hot, we're usually busy running it. When the game gets more chill and in a content lull, we tend to chill too. We have casual players, everyday grinders, crafters, pvpers, returning players, and people who enjoy Savage and Ultimate content.

As for M&H content? We gpose, RP, host events, play games, hang out at the house, and make friends. Content is part of the FC, but the community is really the heart of it!

Can I visit first?

Absolutely! We encourage you to visit before joining so you can get a feel for M&H and the people here. Come hang out, explore, and see what you find!

How do I apply?

Ready to join us? Head over to the M&H house and interact with the placard outside the gate. From there, open the Milk & Honey FC profile and submit an application.

Applications are usually accepted while your character is online because I like to actually say hi and answer any questions first instead of blindly accepting applications! If yours is still pending, don’t worry! You can reach out to me on Discord at .peachie and I’ll help get you sorted.

I'm a little shy. Can I still make it in this community?

Absolutely. M&H has been around for 10 years, and in that time we’ve met all kinds of people. Some are outgoing, quiet, awkward, shy, and everything in between.

Joining any new community can be nerve-wracking, even online. A lot of our core members understand that and genuinely try to make new people feel welcome and comfortable.

At first, it might seem like everyone already knows each other or has their own little circles, but give yourself time. Come to an event, hang out in the yard, say hi when you feel up to it, or just quietly exist around us until it feels right. You don’t have to force yourself to become outgoing or play a character to belong here.

Maybe your shyness wears off. Maybe it doesn’t. Either way, you’re welcome here.

What is this website for?

Think of it as M&H’s little home on the web! This site is both a place for curious newcomers to learn more about us and a community hub for the people already here.

You can meet our members, keep up with upcoming events, look back on shared memories, and hang out in the Lounge. Members can also create their own Passport, contribute to the community, RSVP to events, and make the site feel a little more like their own.

The community guidebook

Detailed member guides are here when you need them.

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